Must there be
strong attraction?
How long till you know?
| The Situation You know you will not marry someone you are not strongly attracted to. What`s your opinion? |
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Immediate strong attraction is always the indicator for dating someone. |
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Immediate strong attraction is not always the indicator for dating someone. |
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| If strong attraction is the indicator for dating someone, then... |
| ...there is no point going out with someone you meet whom you are not immediately attracted to. |
| ...it`s good to date only those you have an immediate attraction to. If it doesn`t get stronger, end it. |
 ...the other person has to be strongly attracted too, or you won`t end up staying together. |
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| If immediate strong attraction is not always the indicator for dating someone, then... |
| ...personality and faith matter more for marriage. You hope attraction comes later. |
| ...it`s best to be open without making an immediate judgement. Give it time to see if a strong attraction develops. |
| ...if there is strong attraction after one date, then move forward. |